My Wife Had An Affair With Her Old Boyfriend – Can I Still Trust Her?

My Wife Had An Affair With Her Old Boyfriend – Can I Still Trust Her? MY wife lied and lied about what had happened with an old boyfriend from her schooldays. In the end it was her lover’s wife who told me it was a full-blown affair.

I’m 48 and my wife’s 46. We’ve just celebrated our silver wedding anniversary and had booked to go away for a week. The day before we were due to leave my wife rang me at work in tears. She said I needed to come home but didn’t say why.

I rushed home and she told me someone had put something on Facebook saying she’d had an affair. She said it wasn’t true but when I asked her if she’d been seeing someone, she said she’d met a guy for dinner.

He was an ex-boyfriend from years ago. She said they’d only had dinner, nothing more. She said she’d never do anything to hurt me or the kids – we’ve two teenage girls. We went on holiday that night and had a good time until the last night.

I couldn’t sleep. I kept wondering whether she was telling me the truth. The next morning I asked her if she’d slept with this guy and she admitted she had but just the once. I broke down in tears.

My wife received a text from her ex’s wife as soon as we got back home. She wanted to speak to my wife but my wife said she couldn’t face it so I rang her. She told me they’d been having an affair for six months starting last October and asked that my wife leave her husband alone.

My wife still tried to deny it at first but I cried and pleaded with her to be honest. We’ve talked, argued and cried but I still find it hard because I’m sure she hasn’t told me everything. She started going out “with a girlfriend” on Wednesday nights more than a year ago and that is when I now know she accepted this guy on Facebook.

I am heartbroken. It’s put a huge strain on our marriage.

  1. olumide Reply

    just 4give her and pray to God to handle d case wit fear of God bcos dat is d work of satan

  2. Success Reply

    Just 4give 4 d sake of heaven nd because of d kids. Single parenthood have great effect on children. Pls 4give her.

  3. Christopher Ayeni Reply

    For me,such woman is a satan herself,she doesn’t deserve to remain in that marriage cos she has destroyed her marriage herself.with that in action it brought me to say that once a lover is always a lover no matter how long it,men becareful when yr wife is still seeing her else boyfriend.

  4. Joy Reply

    My dear its hard to believe that a woman that had two kids for u still go out with her ex boyfriend,pls i want to advise u to reconcile with her ,if it sexual dissatisfaction pls buy her artificial pennis

  5. Lazarus Reply

    Pls am begging u 4 d sake of love and 4 d sake of the person u love most 4give her. All u need rite nw is PATIENCE, ENDURANCE nd if possible absent ursef 4rm her just 4 a while, so as d wound will heal. Just knw it dat dis is d sacrifise everyperson must make 4 d sake of D 1 u truely LOVE

  6. Tomi Reply

    Pls for d sake of ur lovely children and ur own longetivity,4give her.I know she must have learnt her lesson by now.

  7. Vitus White Reply

    its he hu wears d shoes dat knows where it pinches him…4me i dnt beliv its possibl 4man to 4giv such dirty insincerity…i mean wt’s d guarantee? 4givnes can only hapen here via God’s interventn…just stay away frm her 4d moment &spend som time 2cry onto God!

  8. vanessa PUCHI Reply

    i saw a comment testifying of ashra great power and ability to re unit once love and ex lover so i copied its email and sent him an email and i he replied following all the instructions my husband is back with me now i want to thank the great ashra for helping me to cast a love spell that brought my husband back to me within 48hours of me contacting him,you can contact ashra on email address or his personal phone number +2348131134346

    Mrs Vanessa PUCHI

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