Our Honeymoon Was Hell: My Husband R*pes Me Violently (A MUST READ)

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Honeymoon Ended The Day After We Were Married There are so many fractions of life that need support and a voice. Of late a lot of violent stories have been released and it gives others a glimpse into the rampant lives of abuse in our society especially between couples who supposedly love each other. The honeymoon period ended the day after we were married, six months from when we first met. After a little argument, Dehinde grabbed me by the waist and lifted me up against the wall.

He grabbed my hands and bent them backward, breaking one of my fingers. I was in shock. I was stunned. I was in serious pains. A few hours after the incident, He broke into tears and told me how sorry he was. I loved him so much, so I believed him when he said it wouldn’t happen again. But life became hell after that. For the next two months the abuse was nonstop.

He kept me in a constant state of terror. I’m not a drinker, but he’d toss a bottle of beer in my face and say “drink”. He’d punch me in the stomach or kick me in the thigh if I didn’t. I started walking on tiptoes around him, fearful of everything I’d say and do. But it didn’t matter; the abuse continued. He dislocated my shoulder several times.

He’d lift me up by the ankles and bang my head against the floor in the living room. A part of me wanted to leave, but another part of me hesitated. Somehow I felt I was partially responsible for the abuse. If I hadn’t made a particular comment or if I had just sipped the alcohol everything would have been OK. And for the first few months he was apologetic after the beatings.

He’d say he felt very bad and that he didn’t mean to hit me so hard. He’d actually cry sometimes and show such remorse that I’d forget my own pain. He’d become romantic and sweet, and I’d fall in love with him all over again. I started to isolate myself from friends and family. I didn’t want them to know about the violence.

I put on a happy face with my two kids and tried to act like things were fine. They knew about the violence but didn’t know the severity. When my mom wanted to see me, I’d lie, saying I was busy. I didn’t want her to see my bruises. I was embarrassed. Sadly, the abuse worsened. The rapes began about two months after we were married.

I was dressing for work when he came out of the shower and asked me where I was going. He didn’t wait for my answer. He threw me on the bed, sat on my stomach, pinned my arms up beside my head and ripped off my clothes. “If you want s*x, wait until I get home tonight,” I said. “You’ll do it when I want, and how I want,” was his response. It got worse after that. He would tie me up and put foreign objects such as necks of beer bottles into my v*g*na.

Five months into the marriage I endured beating after beating. While most of the assaults were done when my children weren’t home, I was worried that they might step in and try to protect me. If they did, they might get beaten, too. I began plotting our escape, but it was difficult. He had begun making threatening comments: “You can never get far enough away from me. I will always find you. If I can’t have you, no one will.” I felt trapped.

How I left? He had disappeared for three days. I didn’t know where he was. I thought he had been in an accident. I called his phone; he would answer but not say anything. He arrived home on the third night at about 1a.m. and immediately started screaming at me that he didn’t appreciate me trying to track him down. We were in the sitting room and he grabbed the land-phone receiver and began to beat me in the face with it.

His eyes were red and flashing like I’d never seen before. I ran to the bedroom, and he was right behind me. He picked me up over his head and threw me across the room twice. I broke my tailbone in the second fall. My 6-year-old daughter woke up. She must have heard something and came to see what was happening.

She just stood there, stunned. He looked at her and got scared for some reason. He went into the bedroom and pack his things. I found my phone, fighting the pain from the broken bone, limped to the living room, I then called my father who took me away from the house. Since then I have not set my eyes on Dehinde. Please what should I do about this marriage?

  1. Anonymous Reply

    If love is soo then tell me why u ar sad. U cant run away from the trouble for what he has done for u, he needs 17 bullets to his head if u were my sister.

  2. Anonymous Reply

    Leave him alone and don’t even contact him but make sure he pays for all what he has done, Sue him for rape, assault and battery then get a formal divorce from him. Raise up your children well and next time don’t tolerate such a thing, the moment it starts you report it. Always pray still commit him into God’s hands, there is nothing he can’t do. Take care of yourself

  3. Anonymous Reply

    so annoying commits everything to God

  4. Anonymous Reply

    sorry oooo

  5. Anonymous Reply

    Made up story

  6. Anonymous Reply

    You are not saying you part of the wrongs, cos I sense some wrong also from you. You said he started beating and raping you from your honey moon. What did you do on your honey Moon period. If your husband love sex you should also try to reciprocate to it. I know you guys dated before marriage.

  7. Anonymous Reply

    you need to save your life and allow Godd to touch him.

  8. Anonymous Reply

    my sister just leave that trouble man alone and move on with your life.

  9. Anonymous Reply

    MY sister, I have heard your own version. If what you are saying is true,I advise you think otherwise. But remember,the fundamental principles of natural justice is that, a defendant and his witnesses should be heard before a Case against him is determined. In the first place,have you once reported to his parents?

  10. Anonymous Reply

    he is a walking bastard just try to forget about him and just divorce him he doesnt deserve u

  11. Anonymous Reply

    Sincerely I thought it was yet another script from an African Magic urban movie I was reading Wallahi!!!!
    I think you should just go back and allow him kill you shikenan!! Since you are still singing “Love and Marriage” perhaps when you wake up in hell you will then remember you should have divorced him long before now fa.
    To, that’s my advice take it or live it fa.

  12. Anonymous Reply

    my advice for you God love you if not dat U would have been a dead woman thank God for your life and never you in any way make up with such monster again he is an antichrist hw I wish you are my sister I would hav taking law’s into my hands by sending him back to hell we he belongs Co’s he type of person doesn’t deserve to live.take it to da self

  13. Anonymous Reply

    No mater what u did to provoke him he had no right to lay his hand on u,he does no qualify to be called a man his a monster coward and a chip excuse for having a pines,u cannot rape unless u are 1 or beat a woman unless u are an abuser it is very important to make a background check up on anyone u wish to be involved with male/female alike,our women are desperate for marriage that they marry without love,good sex kissing and hugging they go with love,they are not a part of marriage but love!u say u loved him did he love u?sorry u had to go true that just do what ur heart tells u

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  15. Anonymous Reply

    Be wise stay away from him for a while, take shelter at ur father’s house. Anyhow I want you to know that he is just prankin you by apologizing after beating you. I don’t know there may be some things that make him do such stupid things, furthermore, I appreciate you as a woman for enduring such great pain. My advice to you is that you should sit down with ur dad and have a sound discussion on the issue.

  16. Anonymous Reply

    Ur life and ur children are important

  17. Anonymous Reply

    Hmm!as long as you are married to you hmm you can’t call that a rape my dear,get that right.but as for the beating or so forget him and bring your self back to life,face your children and live everything to God.God will be with you.

  18. Anonymous Reply

    How ar u can i talk to you ,you want your married but you don’t know what to do. tell God your problems try to watch war room it is a good movie.pray pray to God, your husband has a spiritual wife he needs Jesus and than your married will be back to normal ,every pain you have gone through Jesus loves you.Tell get a bible read pray to God before you start help coming Jesus is watching you.i pray that the holy spirit touch you and your children ur married in Jesus name ur husband needs Jesus.. AMEN JOHN 3:16

  19. Anonymous Reply

    So sorry but the 60% blame goes to you because the beating and rapping didn’t start after 6months of marriage but before wedding and right in the your honey moon and you insisted because you love him. Our desperate ladies should learn from you now.please that man is a drug addict and he does not love you, just re-think on the kind of marriage impression you gave to him when you guys started and how he reciprocated. Just try and divorce him legally and have your peace to train your kids.

  20. Anonymous Reply

    madam sorry for that, but you marry a devil, he need spiritual prayer

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    Leave now!

  23. Anonymous Reply

    i have a 24 shooter let me borrow u. n kill the mother fucker

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