Our Honeymoon Was Hell: My Husband R*pes Me Violently (A MUST READ)

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Honeymoon Ended The Day After We Were Married There are so many fractions of life that need support and a voice. Of late a lot of violent stories have been released and it gives others a glimpse into the rampant lives of abuse in our society especially between couples who supposedly love each other. The honeymoon period ended the day after we were married, six months from when we first met. After a little argument, Dehinde grabbed me by the waist and lifted me up against the wall.

He grabbed my hands and bent them backward, breaking one of my fingers. I was in shock. I was stunned. I was in serious pains. A few hours after the incident, He broke into tears and told me how sorry he was. I loved him so much, so I believed him when he said it wouldn’t happen again. But life became hell after that. For the next two months the abuse was nonstop.

He kept me in a constant state of terror. I’m not a drinker, but he’d toss a bottle of beer in my face and say “drink”. He’d punch me in the stomach or kick me in the thigh if I didn’t. I started walking on tiptoes around him, fearful of everything I’d say and do. But it didn’t matter; the abuse continued. He dislocated my shoulder several times.

He’d lift me up by the ankles and bang my head against the floor in the living room. A part of me wanted to leave, but another part of me hesitated. Somehow I felt I was partially responsible for the abuse. If I hadn’t made a particular comment or if I had just sipped the alcohol everything would have been OK. And for the first few months he was apologetic after the beatings.

He’d say he felt very bad and that he didn’t mean to hit me so hard. He’d actually cry sometimes and show such remorse that I’d forget my own pain. He’d become romantic and sweet, and I’d fall in love with him all over again. I started to isolate myself from friends and family. I didn’t want them to know about the violence.

I put on a happy face with my two kids and tried to act like things were fine. They knew about the violence but didn’t know the severity. When my mom wanted to see me, I’d lie, saying I was busy. I didn’t want her to see my bruises. I was embarrassed. Sadly, the abuse worsened. The rapes began about two months after we were married.

I was dressing for work when he came out of the shower and asked me where I was going. He didn’t wait for my answer. He threw me on the bed, sat on my stomach, pinned my arms up beside my head and ripped off my clothes. “If you want s*x, wait until I get home tonight,” I said. “You’ll do it when I want, and how I want,” was his response. It got worse after that. He would tie me up and put foreign objects such as necks of beer bottles into my v*g*na.

Five months into the marriage I endured beating after beating. While most of the assaults were done when my children weren’t home, I was worried that they might step in and try to protect me. If they did, they might get beaten, too. I began plotting our escape, but it was difficult. He had begun making threatening comments: “You can never get far enough away from me. I will always find you. If I can’t have you, no one will.” I felt trapped.

How I left? He had disappeared for three days. I didn’t know where he was. I thought he had been in an accident. I called his phone; he would answer but not say anything. He arrived home on the third night at about 1a.m. and immediately started screaming at me that he didn’t appreciate me trying to track him down. We were in the sitting room and he grabbed the land-phone receiver and began to beat me in the face with it.

His eyes were red and flashing like I’d never seen before. I ran to the bedroom, and he was right behind me. He picked me up over his head and threw me across the room twice. I broke my tailbone in the second fall. My 6-year-old daughter woke up. She must have heard something and came to see what was happening.

She just stood there, stunned. He looked at her and got scared for some reason. He went into the bedroom and pack his things. I found my phone, fighting the pain from the broken bone, limped to the living room, I then called my father who took me away from the house. Since then I have not set my eyes on Dehinde. Please what should I do about this marriage?

  1. Anonymous Reply

    what a life

  2. Anonymous Reply

    leave that married,he is akiller

  3. Anonymous Reply

    my sister please if you love your children dont go back its really sad you still have a life to live but not with him

  4. Anonymous Reply

    If u v leg, run & never look back.

  5. Anonymous Reply

    u re still asking,,what to do,,,,run. run run or go back to receive death sentence nd signed it ,for love

  6. Anonymous Reply

    Dear am sory oh

  7. Anonymous Reply

    What a tremendous achievement in the life of this Doctor. I wish you more successful endeavours.!!

  8. Anonymous Reply

    Five months into the marriage U got two Children the storyline doesn’t add up..U all should read and digest carefully. I hope she meant 5 yrs.

  9. Anonymous Reply

    Pls run and never look back

  10. Anonymous Reply

    Leave dat marrg god will prvde and supprt ur two child

  11. Anonymous Reply

    oh please dear don’t go back to that house again because if he comes back he could do so thing more worst than than to you dear

  12. Anonymous Reply

    Stay away from such a man. His got metal issue and need serious deliverance…..I can’t imagine laying my hands on a woman…Seriously, its bad. I’m not saying am a saint , but women should be treated with so much love and respect,they are fragile beings and should be treated with love and respect but a lot of men don’t see it that way. And u girls too, una dey fuck up wella, I know a girl that left a gentleman for a smoker, she said she loves him because he beatz her and fuck her real good and the other she said is too gentle. Una get fish brain,to be candid. And you so believe in flashy things more than the love thing……….. I still remain Ben Willis……..look me up on facebook….Remain blessed

  13. Anonymous Reply

    What a annoying question so u still thinking abt that animal called ur husban,my dear my kindy advice for u is just 4get abt him cost he doesn’t what ur worries at all,mark my words if u mistaking go brk hmmm u going to get ur death warrant straight

  14. Anonymous Reply

    Don’t go back there.Also i think u need cousilling with your child

  15. Anonymous Reply

    I wonder, are u asking us to advise u, or you mean u av quit, if you are asking us, that means your story is not real, it’s a fiction. There are things u don’t tell us about the marriage, how could u av 2 children in 6months marriage. Therefore no comments.

  16. Anonymous Reply

    Both need a serious cancelling about marriage because. in the beggining the lord God made them male&female that a man will leave his father house & be united with his wife and that what ever the lord has put together let no man seprate it.

  17. Anonymous Reply

    I hope by now you must have made up your mind. Completely forget about him and forge ahead, hence…………….God forbid!!! PDA.

  18. Anonymous Reply

    That guy is a vampire. please run away.

  19. Anonymous Reply

    Pls.run.His plan is to kill u and deceive another lady again.

  20. Anonymous Reply

    My dear God does not hate you that much to make you fill HELL on earth.please leave

  21. Anonymous Reply

    You’re still asking what to do? It seems that something is WRONG with You!
    You are old enough to Know what to Do!!
    – Ohaka Paul

  22. Anonymous Reply

    Keep praying for his delivarence…ur husband is possessed by d devil

  23. Anonymous Reply

    hello friends how are u place l need a help form people and if u can help me some letter money as a friends God will blssinge you can call me this is my number +2348168345418

  24. Anonymous Reply

    If you want ur marriage to be successful, don’t be posing ur long nose into marriages which their own scores to settle. If U never marry bf, keep quiet. What the woman did isn’t revealed in her narration. Don’t break any marriege.

  25. Anonymous Reply

    that na animal,free d beast abeg.

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