Our Honeymoon Was Hell: My Husband R*pes Me Violently (A MUST READ)

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Honeymoon Ended The Day After We Were Married There are so many fractions of life that need support and a voice. Of late a lot of violent stories have been released and it gives others a glimpse into the rampant lives of abuse in our society especially between couples who supposedly love each other. The honeymoon period ended the day after we were married, six months from when we first met. After a little argument, Dehinde grabbed me by the waist and lifted me up against the wall.

He grabbed my hands and bent them backward, breaking one of my fingers. I was in shock. I was stunned. I was in serious pains. A few hours after the incident, He broke into tears and told me how sorry he was. I loved him so much, so I believed him when he said it wouldn’t happen again. But life became hell after that. For the next two months the abuse was nonstop.

He kept me in a constant state of terror. I’m not a drinker, but he’d toss a bottle of beer in my face and say “drink”. He’d punch me in the stomach or kick me in the thigh if I didn’t. I started walking on tiptoes around him, fearful of everything I’d say and do. But it didn’t matter; the abuse continued. He dislocated my shoulder several times.

He’d lift me up by the ankles and bang my head against the floor in the living room. A part of me wanted to leave, but another part of me hesitated. Somehow I felt I was partially responsible for the abuse. If I hadn’t made a particular comment or if I had just sipped the alcohol everything would have been OK. And for the first few months he was apologetic after the beatings.

He’d say he felt very bad and that he didn’t mean to hit me so hard. He’d actually cry sometimes and show such remorse that I’d forget my own pain. He’d become romantic and sweet, and I’d fall in love with him all over again. I started to isolate myself from friends and family. I didn’t want them to know about the violence.

I put on a happy face with my two kids and tried to act like things were fine. They knew about the violence but didn’t know the severity. When my mom wanted to see me, I’d lie, saying I was busy. I didn’t want her to see my bruises. I was embarrassed. Sadly, the abuse worsened. The rapes began about two months after we were married.

I was dressing for work when he came out of the shower and asked me where I was going. He didn’t wait for my answer. He threw me on the bed, sat on my stomach, pinned my arms up beside my head and ripped off my clothes. “If you want s*x, wait until I get home tonight,” I said. “You’ll do it when I want, and how I want,” was his response. It got worse after that. He would tie me up and put foreign objects such as necks of beer bottles into my v*g*na.

Five months into the marriage I endured beating after beating. While most of the assaults were done when my children weren’t home, I was worried that they might step in and try to protect me. If they did, they might get beaten, too. I began plotting our escape, but it was difficult. He had begun making threatening comments: “You can never get far enough away from me. I will always find you. If I can’t have you, no one will.” I felt trapped.

How I left? He had disappeared for three days. I didn’t know where he was. I thought he had been in an accident. I called his phone; he would answer but not say anything. He arrived home on the third night at about 1a.m. and immediately started screaming at me that he didn’t appreciate me trying to track him down. We were in the sitting room and he grabbed the land-phone receiver and began to beat me in the face with it.

His eyes were red and flashing like I’d never seen before. I ran to the bedroom, and he was right behind me. He picked me up over his head and threw me across the room twice. I broke my tailbone in the second fall. My 6-year-old daughter woke up. She must have heard something and came to see what was happening.

She just stood there, stunned. He looked at her and got scared for some reason. He went into the bedroom and pack his things. I found my phone, fighting the pain from the broken bone, limped to the living room, I then called my father who took me away from the house. Since then I have not set my eyes on Dehinde. Please what should I do about this marriage?

  1. Anonymous Reply

    U no get juju mak kill him

  2. Anonymous Reply

    you are an idiot for asking what to do about the marriage.. Wake up!

  3. Anonymous Reply

    wisdom is knowing what to do at the right time and i believe that you can do it right all the time

  4. Anonymous Reply

    absolutely,,,she must be an idiot to ask what to do.He ain’t a gentleman bhu a punk ass modaf**cka,,,ignore him like ya ignored your shit at the loor,,,,,he dsrve a gentleman but not a bully

  5. Anonymous Reply

    Child, you need to stay away from that man. He needs help. If you stay with him your dad will pick you up in a body bag the next time.

  6. Anonymous Reply

    u must be crazy for asking us that crazy question cant u see things is not working for u when u are fucking dead the guy will still continue living his rotten life with whores then u just died for nothing and tell me what will happen to your children that is the worse mistake most ladies do when a guy beat u even when u are not married you still want to continue and marry the guy u are making a mistake no matter what u do to please the devil the devil is still the devil and he can devour u at any time he like

  7. Anonymous Reply

    Stay there until u are killed,don’t run for your life keep asking nonsense question

  8. Anonymous Reply

    Stupid Woman

  9. Anonymous Reply

    u have to report him to his parent

  10. Anonymous Reply

    i will adive to leave that man 4get about u loving him is a beast

  11. Anonymous Reply

    my dear pls cnt u see dat u re almost dead,dnt be crazy u had enough tym bfr y nw jxt live dat hox nd getout de nxt one might be death.

  12. Anonymous Reply

    Remain in the marriage plz u know he’s your love.

  13. Anonymous Reply

    Run for ur life….

  14. Anonymous Reply

    Get a 357 magnum, shoot him in the face, if he lives apologize and say I’m sorry I love you so much……

  15. Anonymous Reply

    The greatest problems with Africa women are,they believed enduring married will make men love then.no.no.no.an abusive man can never change.why I have been though it.ran for your dear life. The beautiful one are not yet born.

  16. Anonymous Reply

    my dear stay oooo,, he will change d day u re lied in state nd will come 2 ur burial with another woman,,,Good wife

  17. Anonymous Reply

    U’re really a gr8t woman, God nos ur hrt nd 4 ur husband! give him a space nd continue praying 4 him. God Will ans ur prayers 1 day.

  18. Anonymous Reply

    u must be stupid for asking that question. nest time your stupid father will come an varry ur dead body

    • Anonymous Reply

      Someone called the young woman stupid. But calling her father stupid too, is the part I do not get. Some of us respondents are rather illiterates!

  19. Anonymous Reply

    Like seriously r u dat crazy abt him, eiiiii my sister wake up from the land of the dead

  20. Anonymous Reply

    R u kidding me eiiiii love wen tin tin

  21. Anonymous Reply

    sis where una meet wit am 4 d first time. got some dat I no trust u

  22. Anonymous Reply

    Kill that dog

  23. Anonymous Reply

    Babe u dey there dey talk abt nonsense love .. 1st file divorce and make sure is been reported to organisation that sees to abuse of woman , dt beast can’t just move on with dt cos ‘he wud continue with his acts… so he must be in prison dt is where he belongs. And if u Persist with dis kind silly question on what to do again , I bet u,u non go get dt privilege again . U for don die. Even dt kind person fit rape una daughter self . So make u pack ur kids too.

  24. Anonymous Reply

    I really feel for u. But u just have to let him go since he left the house himself. I guess the man has psychological problems.

  25. Anonymous Reply

    4 better 4 worse no mean to commit suicide.any body that knows what can kill n still stick to that want to commit suicide so if u want to visit hell fire then stay there he will help u even after that God will still forgive him if he repent but you wey commit suicide na hell fire straight

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