MARRIAGE Advice For Ladies And Gents (A MUST READ) – By Pastor Adeboye

Pastor E. A. Adeboye

Pastor E. A. Adeboye

MARRIAGE advice for the Ladies

It is better to remain single than to marry than to marry the wrong person!

Marrying the wrong person is like living in hell on earth and divorce isn’t an option!

Don’t ever think you can marry somebody and change the fellow, if the person doesn’t change before you get married it is a settled case!

If you marry just because a guy is rich, tall and handsome but he not a true child of God, you are heading for trouble! Goliath was Tall, king saul was lanky but he lost his crown. Don’t marry a fool.

If a guy is following you to church just to get you , you will know! some guys are in church just to deceive you but the bible says by their fruits you’ll know them. Bible didn’t say by their words you’ll know them , some guys have sweet mouth! Don’t marry a sweet talking demon, watch their fruits!

If you marry someone who doesn’t believe in holiness, you are the one who dug your own grave yourself cos you’ll only be wife NO 1, many others are likely follow!

Romans 8:31 The reason RCCG weds with the bible instead of a ring is because the bible can never change, the word of God stands forever but a ring can be removed at anytime!

Those who will reach the top must be peculiar! There is always room at the top but only few will get there.

Don’t marry a man who has no job! Before God gave Adam a wife, he gave him a job! If he says he is a contractor, ask him for evidence of his previous contracts because you might just be the contract he is on about!

MARRIAGE advice for the GENTs

Don’t marry a Delilah! Don’t marry for beauty . Proverbs 31:30 says beauty is vain.

Don’t ever marry outside the church and you have no reason to marry outside RCCG. The reason is that If you are both from the same church even when trouble comes it is easier for the pastors to handle it!

Don’t marry a girl simply because she can sing! In the choir there are some people that can sing but they are falling angels! Marry a prayer warrior! If a girl cannot pray for 1 hour, don’t marry her.

Don’t marry a girl who is lazy! Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook, she needs to know how to do cores and cook because you cannot afford to be eating out all the time.

Don’t marry a girl who is worldly! If you do, you have carried what you’ll worship for the rest of your life!

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  2. Tyler Reply

    It’s really important to marry someone who believes as you do. God tells us not to get yoked with a non-believer, and we need to listen. I was married to a beautiful gal who pretended to be part of my church family. However, I later learned (yes, after we were married) that she’d already been divorced once, and her idea of fidelity wasn’t anything like mine. It was like we were from different planets, and it didn’t last very long. I tried hard, because I don’t believe in divorce, but once she started stepping out on me every night with other guys, I found it impossible to keeping living the farce.

    • Noelle Reply

      Tyler,
      Sorry to hear about your experience. I pray that the Lord will heal and restore you. Be blessed.

  3. Noelle Reply

    I agree with most of the points in the article. However I don’t agree with marrying someone from the same church. I have to say this as a member of RCCG in America that there are very few men in my age range that are single so if someone from another church approaches me and we are on the same page spiritually I would have to give him serious consideration.

  4. Cherry @ Marriage Advice Reply

    Thanks for this great article, I just couldn’t agree more. Marriage is indeed God’s arrangement, anything that deals with marriage one should always look up to the one who originated it, He will surely give us guidance.

  5. Reuben Reply

    obey is better than sacrifice!

  6. idowu tunde Reply

    Hi sir.how do I know God’s will for my life.how do I know a lady is God’s will for my life

  7. Jen Reply

    I agree with a couple of points in this article, but many points that I don’t with. I think there are wonderful partners out there who enjoy faith but who are not active within organized religion. Also, it’s not guaranteed that someone will be a good spouse just because they go to church often. Following all of this advice doesn’t promise a happy and long union. I think that it’s good for people to have some independence before marrying; it could be financial, social, or mental independence. I got married in Thailand last year, and I went into the marriage with a lot of my own self-made money. Getting a Thailand prenuptial agreement was a priority and didn’t indicate that I found my partner untrustworthy. I think men and women must always protect themselves and their assets so that if a marriage ends, a new life can begin.

  8. Nonye Reply

    Sir, wht is the solution whn dont wnt 2 continue wit d marriage no matter they have nt weded

  9. Tobi Reply

    God Bless you Sir, May Gods Grace continually be upon you in Jesus Name. Amen!. I desired to be married, but havent save enough money. Should I just go on with the wedding plans? Cause I have my job and Favour of God is upon it.

  10. Thompson Reply

    Dear Sir,
    How can person leave this mess that he or she has already fond he or her self already?

    We are need solution to move forward since the divorce is not the way out.
    Thanks
    Bro Tom

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